Border Planting

Your Gay Husband Tip of The Day :

When It is Time to Change...It is Time to Change

Border Planting with Rock Garden

Border Planting
Doesn't everyone have at least one area in your yard that is difficult for one reason or another. Well I did. It is at  the bottom of a retaining wall so it is wet and get part sun so I have problems with the grass growing up along the retaining wall itself. It is near the pool so it get lots of use and is also in a high visibility area. After much thought, here is what I did...
COST - $45 for everything
TIME - 2 hours
LEVEL of DIFFICULTY - 2 on scale of 1-5 [based on number of steps]

Before

To start I needed to remove any grass or vegetation 20" from the wall. I will be planting in one portion and creating a rock garden directly next to it for drainage, not to mention aesthetic. Take your time and don't miss anything. You will be happy later when you don't have to weed.

Laying Edging

To create perfect lines as well as creating clear lines of demarcation I use a plastic item that is used to keep bricks in line when laying pavers. It is perfect for this application as well. First lay down the track on the prepared area and using 8 inch plastic spikes secure the edging. Then cut out weed fabric and lay down in section where rock garden will go. All these Items can be purchased at Home Depot.

After

When choosing your planting material make sure to consider the amount of sun, moisture and check to see what kind of maintenance they will require. Don't forget that after planting you will need to mulch. I needed plants that could be in wet or dry conditions, that will stay year after year, that will get denser but not bigger, low maintenance, and part sun. This will save you both time and money in the long run by not having to constantly buy new plants.




This area is now ready for all the pool parties and FUN for summer. Take a look at your yard and see if it is Time To Make A Change. I also stained the fence. I hope you find inspiration and add your personal touches to your own space.
Happy Gardening.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband

Southern Fried Pork Chops

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

Undo Your Belt Before You Start This Meal

Southern Fried Pork Chop Dinner

Southern Fried Pork Chops
This is a perfect meal for a Sunday dinner. It is easy to make for 2 or for a Buffet. When I was growing up I got so excited when my Mom would make Pork Chops. They were so good. The funny thing is that now she is out of practice and can't make good pork chops and she always complains about them being too dry. Hopefully this will jog her memory. Mom this one is for you.  She always made it with mashed potatoes and canned corn. This is pretty close with a few updated ingredients. I think you are going to enjoy this meal...here is how I made it.
COST - $10 for 4 people 2 chops each
TIME - 30 minutes including prep
Level of DIFFICULTY - 2 on a scale of 1-5 

Flowering Pork Chop

To start you will need  a large skillet with 1/2 inch of vegetable oil [not olive oil] and preheat pan on medium high. While pan is preheating add to paper bag- 1 cup flour, 2 Tbsp Ginger, 1 Tbsp Garlic Powder, 1 tsp salt, 1 tsp pepper, 1 tsp Cayenne pepper and shake.
Sprinkle pork chops with salt and pepper to taste then put in bag with flour and shake. Remove Pork Chop from bag and make sure all is covered then shake off the excess.

Frying Pork Chops

Now put in fry pan for 4-5 minutes per side til internal temp reached 165 degrees. At this point you will need to monitor the heat keeping it between medium and medium high. If the oil is not hot enough you will end up with greasy chops. This is how I handle that. First don't over crowd the pan. Makes sure there is enough room around each chop to breath. I start with a preheated pan on Medium High then I add the chops and cook for 1 minute then lower it just a little bit to Medium. The pan will cool when you first put the chops in so this will counter act that and keep the pan and oil at the right temp. Perfecto !

Smashed Carrots and Potatoes

I always like to have one WOW side dish. The side dishes I served with this meal were corn, apple sauce and Smashed Carrots and Potatoes. This is a perfect way to trick your kids into eating more veggies not to mention a great way to mix it up and add a healthy touch. Wash and cut equal amount so of carrots and potatoes and cooked them in boiling water until fork tender. Make sure to cut carrots a bit smaller than the potatoes because they take a little longer to cook. Drain and add butter, milk, salt and pepper to taste then smash with a potato smasher. Do NOT over smash, you want them lumpy. They taste so yummy. The carrots add a little sweetness to the dish and brightens up your plate. Great for Pot-Lucks.
May I suggest an Iced Lemon and Mint Vodka to go with that.
Don't forget...you can always get on the tredmill tomorrow.
I hope you enjoy this as much as we did.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband

Fashion Friday: Swim Wear 2011

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

The Best Swim Attire is Confidence



Get out your swim suit, we're going to Punta Cana

Swim Wear 2011 Jump In...Its OK, we have left the craziness of the national/local news and have decided to get away.My choice today is Punta Cana. The Dominican Republic is known for beautiful sights.The beach's are clean,clear and pristine.The sky's radiate a turquoise haze, making the people watching even more enjoyable.A back drop of blue makes everyone look beautiful. Speaking of beautiful this week it is all about the latest in swimwear, for both men and women.Lets have some fun.. Ready?



Naila Spring 2011 Swimwear for men

This is the new look for men.The long baggy,loose fitting,below the knew trunk,has been updated.Its a bit more fitted, shorter and gone with the elastic waist.The suits of choice have a "surfer feel" with lace up closure.Hats continue to be on trend.This hat is the perfect accessory...I think.



 For women the string bikini is the choice this spring.Weather it is print,solid,mixed and or matched the options are out there.The cover up plays a big role in completing the total look.Scarfs and ponchos are also great options.

Diesel Spring 2011

The new board short is exciting to see.Say good bye to the long baggy short that hung barley above your knee.Confidence and a good smile always helps.

Agua de Coco Spring 2011

The one piece is a favorite choice for many.This year, the trend is asymmetric and detail.This is a a beautiful example of how exquisite the fabrications and detailing on swimsuits have become.Put on a pair of your favorite jeans and you are ready to club hop after the beach.

"Aloha" by Diesel 2011

For the confident guy who has all the board shorts he has ever wanted. he can find newness in a Lycra version the the male swimming short. This re- interpetation of an "Old Style" men's swim short is the modern version of today.













Catherine Malandrino
Spring 2011

 For the fashion savvy girl who takes the edge with her every where she goes. The designers didn't miss a beat. This look is from Catherine Malandrino.This is a look look that can be worn for many occasions and to the beach or pool. Imagine the tan lines.

Emporio Armani Spring 2011

Over the top guys...the mini is still a popular opton.This look is from Emporio Armani spring 2011 collection. The look is not for everyone...If you can...you have confidence...ubersexy they say in Europe.








Getting away on vacation and packing a swim suit is always something that we all should like and and enjoy. The many choices in colors and styles are out there for us to buy ad enjoy.A the time to plan a vacation, get a new swim suit and put your mind and body at ease.
Jump in...it feels great!
Til Next Friday,
Your Gay Husbands Husband

Happy hour with Your Gay Husband: Banana Bliss

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

Go Bananas

Banana Bliss

Banana Bliss
4-5 ice cubes
1 part brandy
1 part creme de banane
1 part Cointreau
lemon juice
banana wedge, to decorate

Put the ice cubes into a mixing glass and pour  brandy, creme de banane, and Cointreau over them. Stir with a spoon, then strain into a cocktail glass. Dip the banana wedge in lemon juice to prevent it discoloring and attach it to the rim of the glass.

" One revolution is just like one cocktail, it just gets your organized for the next" Will Rogers

This sounded so good. Make sure to take the time to enjoy at least 1 hour a day to be Happy. I hope this helps.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband

Weekly Grocery Bargains

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

Buy in Bulk and Freeze When You Find a Great Bargain

Buy in Bulk and Save

Weekly Grocery Bargains
This week make sure to check out all the great merchandise that is on Sale for Mothers day. Whether you are buying a gift or the kids are making a Mothers Day Breakfast or You are cooking a romantic dinner for her, there will be loads of great savings. Indulge your mother this Mothers Day and start at your local Grocery store. Prices are good May 4th thru May 10th.

It Means Savings

I don't know about you but last week I filled up my freezer with all the Great deals from Alberstons. They were ridiculously low last week.
They have a descent selection of products across the board that are on sale. You do not need a rewards card to receive discounts.
Print Albertsons Coupons here.






roses - $9.99 a dozen
blue bell ice cream - $2.98
boneless skinless chicken breast - $1.79lb
rib eye steaks - $4.99lb
fresh corn - 8 for $2
strawberries - $4.99 for 3lb package
coke products - 3 12 packs for $8.88
canned veggies - 3 for $1 buy up BIG TIME [you can even donate]
eggs - .99dz
pork baby back ribs - $2.99lb
pork loin roast - $1.99lb
whole lobster - %5.99ea
lobster tail - $4.99ea 4oz
salmon - $3.99 ea 5 oz
cantaloupe - .99ea

Honest to Goodness Savings

 Once again Aldi has kept to it's reputation for no frills and great deals. Their gardening merchandise just hit the stores and they have some really good items. Don't forget to stop by Aldi for your staple like milk and eggs. Who knows maybe you will leave there with tree or a stainless steel gas grill. Today I even saw a walker and wheel barrow. Don't forget a quarter for your basket, you will get it back when you return your cart.
Print Aldi Ad here.

Weekly Specials

Make sure to check out the produce while you are their. They have a very diverse selection.They also carry a huge selection of Hispanic food, spices and baked items. You do not need a rewards card to receive discounts. Print Fiesta Ad here.









T-bone steaks - $3.49lb
boneless skinless chicken breasts - $1.49lb
pork country ribs - $1.29lb
Rose bouquet - $12.88 dz
live craw fish - $1.29lb
seedless watermelon - $3.99ea
whole lobster - $5.99ea 12-14oz
papayas - .79lb

Low Prices plus more...

 I really like Kroger and the usually have the best deals. Make sure to check out their seasonal items. They always have a huge variety and they are always going on sale. You will need a rewards card to receive discounts. Print Kroger Coupons here.







rib eye steaks - $4.99lb
pork loin chops - $1.99lb
blue berries - $2.88 6oz
asparagus - $2.48lb
bell peppers - 4 for $5
Make sure to check out the floral department this week.

Serious Food...Silly Prices

Sunflower farmers Market is my personal favorite place to shop. I still only buy when the are having sales but the environment is great. I just had some basil chicken sausage with pasta the other night for dinner. They make the sausage at the store. It is always fresh and yummy. You do not need a reward card to receive discounts. Don't forget some table wine as low as $3.33 a bottle. It is good.
Print Sunflower Ad here.



seedless watermelon - $1.47 ea
cantaloupe - 2 for $4
Red and Russet potatoes - .77lb
artichokes and broccoli crowns - 10 for $10
lobster tails - $4.99ea 4oz
large egg plants or bunched spinach - 10 for $10
cage free brown eggs - $1.99dz
40% off steaks
assorted chocolates - $3.99lb
fresh made sausage - $2.99lb

Ingredients for Life

 Tom Thumb labels their food with colored tags indication it nutrition level such as organic or gluten free. You do need a rewards card to receive discounts. Print Tom Thumb Coupons here.





New York strip steaks - $4.99lb
mangos - 3 for $1
chuck roast - $2.99lb
navel oranges - .77lb
large artichokes - 2 for $4
Digorno Pizza $5 ea Friday Only
green beans - .99lb [my nephew loves them]

Here are some additional LINKS for a store that might be in your area. Let me know if there is a store you would like me to add.
Safeway - HEB - Trader Joes - Jewel - Raleys - Ralphs - Vons
Happy Shopping and Saving.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband

Revamping Vases for Spring

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

Make Something Old New Again

Black to White

Revamping Vases for Spring
It is so much fun doing little things to make a big impact. When using vases I like to usually use only 1-2 colors and let the flowers make the statement. I am sure you have heard this before when using frames. It makes it easier to use the vases in clusters or when setting an entire room to just see a single color when it comes to your vase. Here I used white. I am a HUGE fan of using white and black and adding color from there. Right now I am doing white.
COST - under $10 [.97 plus tax for paint and the rest on pots and plants.
TIME - 20 minutes not including dry time.
Level of Difficulty - 1 on a scale of 1-5

Vases...Before

I found this long black vase at an Estate sale for $1. I just loved it...it was different then most vases I find. I love updating vintage pieces and breathing new life into them. I also painted these other vases using a white gloss spray paint for .97 at Home Depot.

Plastic Nusery Vases

Three of these are plastic pots that plants come in from the nursery. I didn't have any ceramic and they were going on the patio so I decide to paint them white. I put a glass coaster under them and mixed them with white candle holders. They look great.

Kalanchoe Plant in White Pot

It always amazes me with what you can come up with when you have a plan. My plan was to use white vases/planters this spring. From that point it all came together. Think...ReNew - ReUse - RePurpose and see what you can come up with.







I hope this inspires you to add simple affordable design to your home. Have FUN and you may just inspire your friends to do the same. Beauty is contagious.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband

Staining The Fence

Your Gay Husband Tip of the Day :

Patience Provides Quality Work

Finished Fence

Staining the Fence
We had a fire a while ago that burnt down our garage. It also destroyed a car, 1 20" foot section of fence and a portion of another fence. These fences were on either side of the garage. When they replaced the fence they use the same color as the Cedar on the garage. There was just a problem with this....NONE of the fences matched. We had a light Cedar, dark cedar and almost a red color they used for the smaller section of fence. We decided to stain the fence so it would all match. I needed to go with a darker stain so that it would cover the previous stains without covering the grain of the wood. I used a transparent Behr outdoor Stain that is made for fences. They also make semi transparent and and one that has total coverage. It would have been easier to not use the transparent stain but I like the look of stained wood... not stain that looks like paint. To each their own.

Before Staining

 This is the lightest fence that we had left from the fire recovery. The color is OK it just didn't match the other fences, which for me is a design no no. The fences are 8 feet high.

Removing Hardware

Before staining you will want to remove any hardware off the fence and Blue Tape any areas that are NOT fencing. The stain will bleed and can be difficult to remove once absorbed.

Staining with a Brush

I used a 1" inch brush to stain any hard to reach sections and a 3" inch brush to finish staining the inner planks. It is key that once you begin a plank that you work downward before you go onto the next section. If you let a section dry or overlap, it will cause streaking.
Take your time and you will end up with a perfect fence.

One Section at a Time

As you can see I stained the inside planks first with the brushes then I used a 4" inch roller to do the outer planks. Before you know it, you are done. Now just replace your hardware and you are ready for your first outdoor party. I saved over $800 doing it myself.







I recommend putting on some music and finding your ZEN to reach optimal results.
It is not what you do but who you are when doing it.
I hope this inspires you to add design to your surroundings and not settle for less. You deserve it.
Til Later,
Your Gay Husband